In Alex & the List, we see Alex struggle with his feelings for Katherine and the pressure to change himself in order to be with her. As he begins to work through the list, he realizes that some of the changes are easy to make, but others require him to confront his own insecurities and fears.
Throughout the film, Alex turns to his supportive friends for advice and comfort. Dave, his childhood friend, is always there to give him a pep talk and help him see the bigger picture. Lily, his best female friend, provides a different perspective on relationships and encourages him to be true to himself. Michael, Lily's husband, offers practical advice and helps Alex navigate some of the more challenging items on the list.
As Alex works through the list, he begins to question whether he truly wants to be with Katherine if it means changing who he is. He also starts to realize that Katherine may not be the perfect woman he thought she was. Along the way, he also discovers that he has feelings for Lily, which adds another layer of complexity to the story.
Ultimately, Alex must decide whether he is willing to make the changes on the list and pursue a relationship with Katherine, or if he would be happier staying true to himself and potentially pursuing a relationship with Lily. The film ends on a hopeful note, with Alex making a decision that feels true to his heart.